I'm not quite sure how it happened, I guess I did something wrong, which does not suprise me. I'm still trying to figure out all the process of blogging. Guess I haven't got it down yet. Could someone please explain to me why, or what purpose all this is about.
Heres a serious question I do have in a more personall atmosphere. What do you do when you are so in love with someone, but they have a drinking problem? It has gotten physical a time or two, but its just mainly verbal. I have left him due to this, and me haveing two teenage sons that would kick his butt, but I do love him, and would like to spend the rest of my life with him, but I told him that I would not be back because of his drinking!! And I've been holding my ground, even with his begging and pleading. And I do feel right about my decision! So if anyone has any thoughts about this situation, or ideas, it would be appreciated, and helpful!!
Stick to your guns, especially with your boys still in the house. Don't ever settle. You made the right choice - even thought it was hard. You deserve the best.
ReplyDeleteI have stuck to my guns! Life is hard, but is getting alot better. Slowly but surley!! A person should not be taken advantage of, and one really needs to think that the grass is greener on the other side. My life have plenty of promise and something to look forward to. I do look forward to tomarrow.
ReplyDeleteWell this term of school is almost out and I have managed to keep my head. Thank god I definitely need that break! Unfortunatly the kids are going to be out June 3, so its not going to be a very peaceful break, but I don't have to worry about taking them to school. You know after you sit back for awhile and have sometime to yourself, you start to reflect whats the most important to you in life, then you get that big smile on your face and you have a sigh of relief. Good luck to everyone, and I hope you all find your happiness and peace!
ReplyDeleteHello well I made it. It is the last week of school and to tell you the truth I am glad! I did learn quite alot and enjoyed my professors. I wished that we got longer than a week off, but that is okay Disney World here I come!!!
ReplyDeleteHi Janea! I have personal experience with this kind of thing. My ex had a drug problem. It is a tough situation to be in. I felt like if I didn't continue to help him, I was giving up on him...and that is not real love. But honestly, you need to love yourself more. Put your kids and yourself first. Leaving my ex was one of the hardest things I ever did. It took me years to get over, but now I thank god I had the strength to do it. And you know how they say people don't change? It is the absolute truth! He never changed from what I have heard, and now puts his wife and little girl through what I went through for years. I look back now and think...what was I thinking? Life is too short to live with that kind of drama. Good luck girl! I hope it all works out for you.
ReplyDeleteHey Nicole thank you for your advise. He says hes quite drinking, and as far as I know he has. He looks better, but I have that insecure feeling inside when it comes to him. I love him, I don't feel quilty about leaving because it was too much, and it got a little physical, but I feel bad because of the things he tells me, "if you really love me then.." you know the rest. Thats when it really makes me feel bad. I hope that things work out for him, but I honestly think that if I was to go back then I will eventually be in the position I'm in now. Thank you again for your story, that really makes me think!!!
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